Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Rescue, Respect, Repeat

Hey everyone, and happy Wednesday! We hope you all are enjoying the nicer weather and cooler nights these days, as well as the beautiful Fall sunrises and sunsets. Today we just want to do a quick little post about an amazing local animal activist, Marcy Christmas. She is graciously sponsoring the first 150 cat and dog adoptions at Ventura County Animal Services! All fees will be taken care of, including the licensing fees! This promotion started yesterday, and will run until all 150 pets have been adopted. So if you, or anyone you know is looking to adopt a cat or dog, this is a great time to do so! 

Head on out to one of their two locations: 
600 Aviation Drive in Camarillo
670 West Los Angeles Avenue in Simi Valley


Thank you again Marcy, your overwhelming kindness will improve the lives of these shelter animals, as well as the families that adopt them. #Christmas150

- KiLo



 

Friday, October 23, 2015

Arm The Animals


As animal lovers we are thrilled to feature a uniquely benevolent Southern California based clothing company called Arm The Animals. Spawned from a place of genuine concern, co-founders, Matt Heinmeyer and Danian Rios have created a company that makes a point to give back by donating profits to local and international animal organizations. The company evolved in memory of Matt’s sister Karen, a renowned animal lover and pet rescue advocate whose untimely death motivated him to do something in her honor.

Matt said, “Her death sent me for a pretty big loop and for about a year I was racking my brain trying to figure out something to do in her memory. I felt like I wanted to do something in her name that would keep her good works going. So one day the term, Arm The Animals, popped into my head. I wasn't sure exactly what it was going to be but I knew it was a great name so I researched the term [and] the URL’s were available so I borrowed Danian’s debit card and registered the domain. After that, I thought if I'm going to have an organization I need to have a logo, so I put together an image of the letters with the gorilla, came up with a couple more designs and it ended up becoming a t-shirt company. Instead of just saying, we've had a tragedy, I'm going to do something in her memory to raise money, we said, let's have a product, let's have a brand, let's try to make something more.”


When asked why it’s so important to their brand to preserve quality of life and to protect animals Matt said, “It’s important because the globe in general is at a crisis level as far as eco systems go; we're about 25-30 years away from having the ocean fished out and potentially collapsing the food chain. There are megafauna, silver back gorillas, elephants and rhinos that are literally disappearing! Our kids are going to grow up without knowing what a white rhino or a silver back is. There is such a battle for resources and expansion across the globe that in 5 years there will be massive consequences. If the ocean actually is fished out and collapses it's going to start a chain reaction that we can't come back from. Our advantage is that while people are browsing Instagram or Facebook, we can put an image in front of them which will generate a response; it’s all about spreading information and putting a stop or reversal into collapsing eco systems.”

Danian has his own reasons for making such important contributions to the preservations of wildlife and says, “I'm bummed out about what we've done as a people. Like Matt said, we're just consuming every resource possible in the world. I wasn't actually aware of how bad the situation was with domesticated animals until I really started researching the problem. I had animals growing up, but I never really knew how bad the situation was with euthanizing animals. Matt was the one that really started teaching and educating me on the atrocities that were taking place. It was pretty much what his sister had taught him. Having compassion and being willing to do something to make a difference is my responsibility. I like the idea of going to work every day and being able to do something that brings awareness or makes a difference in these animal’s lives, it's really fulfilling.”

Arm The Animals has had several successful collaborations with some amazingly talented artists including Tony Koehl, Franz Garcia and Abby Diamond. They most recently partnered with Alias Blake whose War Paint collection is both impressive and fashion forward. Their brilliant designs, revolutionary thinking, and continued generosity has also allowed Arm The Animals to create successful business partnerships with other important animal rescue advocates including Wildlife SOS. Their generous donations even helped facilitate the rescue of Raju, a tortured circus elephant who is now living the remainder of his life free from chains and bondage.

With commitment to their core values Arm The Animals is helping to keep no kill rescue shelters open, save elephants from captivity, as well as preserve and restore the quality of life for a variety of species worldwide. They strive to do everything within their power to create a better quality of living for both domestic and wildlife animals.

October is Pitbull Awareness Month and in order to celebrate they have created several new designs of which 20% of the proceeds will benefit four Pit Bull rescue shelters; Casa Del Toro Animal Rescue, Priceless Pet Rescue, Fresno Bully Rescue and Lilo’s Promise. Information for these Pit Bull rescue centers is available  below or on Instagram @armtheanimals.


Matt and Danian are two of the most amazing guys you will ever meet, we can’t express how incredible they truly are. They are generous, sincere and dependable people with a genuine concern for life. Please check out the new 2015 Fall designs at www.armtheanimals.com
Please also check out Arm The Animals on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @armtheanimals

For more information on the ATA collection contributors, please check out the following;

Tony Koehl, a renowned Death Metal artist that has done hundreds of album covers and has also created several designs for Arm the Animals.
http://www.sketchthesoul.com/
                     

Franz Garcia who is primarily a sketch and comic book artists but who has also done some great work with ATA over the past 2 years.

Abby Diamond, an insanely talented artist whom they recently collaborated on the Finch Fight Collection. She is a brilliant and vivid artist who they plan to continue to work with.

Alias Blake, a freelance artist and designer from Melbourne, Australia. With over 15 years of experience working in the fashion and design industry it’s no wonder that her War Paint collection is colorful and amazing.


Pit Bull Awareness and Rescue Information:


Priceless Pet Rescue: www.pricelesspetrescue.org or IG @pricelesspetspittiecrew

Fresno Bully Rescue: www.fresnobullyrescue.org or IG @fresnobullyrescue

Lilo’s Promise: www.lilospromise.com or IG @lilospromise

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

USC in the Windy City

Hello everyone, Lori here. Today is, Wednesday, October 14th, and I am flying out to Chicago, Illinois. I will be spending the week with my family enjoying everything that this amazing city has to offer. We will also be attending the USC vs. Notre Dame game on Saturday; which is sort of the main reason for this trip. I come from a family of sports fans; I have spent most of my life attending Dodgers games, but also as a USC football fan and season ticket holder. During the late August through December months my family spends almost every Saturday together tailgating, travelling, and cheering on the Trojans. For me, the games are just an excuse to hang out with my "Fall Family" which includes my immediate family members, Aunts and Uncles, cousins, and good friends. Over the many years of tailgating our little group has become quite close; together we have seen some triumphant victories, spectacular physical feats, explored amazing cities, and experienced disappointing losses. We have also witnessed several coaches try to bring a National Championship back to Los Angeles.

Not so surprisingly, it was announced earlier this week the USC's head coach Steve Sarkisian was released from his position and that Clay Helton, USC’s offensive coordinator, would take over in the interim. Helton will lead the Trojans against Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana for Saturday's match up. As a fan, every game matters. But this particular game, against one of our longest standing rivals, will have a considerable amount of eyes watching and judging. The new coach along with the team will be under the microscope. USC loves to win, who doesn't? It is crucial for the program to win in South Bend otherwise the potential for a descent Bowl game is out the door. A victory would also help restore confidence to both the players and fans. South Bend, Indiana is a very long way to travel in order to lose, which hopefully will not happen. I have a feeling that USC will be able to triumph on Saturday.

USC's football program has seen a lot of changes and experienced several ups and downs in the last few years. I have a feeling that a new head coach, with a fresh perspective can only bring good things to USC's football program. And if for some reason we cannot pull off a win, there are plenty of stores along Chicago's Magnificent Mile to help soften the blow and comfort me.


Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Ivory Rose Boudoir Photography - A Tale of the Beauty Within

Hello Everyone,

This week we wanted to introduce you to a phenomenal photographer within our local community; Erika Gorman. She was recommended to us by our good friend Jasmine and our very own cosmic opposite, Kim was lucky enough to participate in her very own photo shoot with the lovely and talented Erika. Today we wish to share more information about Erika and the boudoir experience with testimonials from both Kim and Jasmine.
You can see more images on our facebook page: www.facebook.com/thearcherandthetwin
And our Instagram: @cosmic_opposites

#Kilo

Ivory Rose Boudoir
was established in 2012 by Erika Gorman. It is a business that was inspired after she received her very own boudoir photo shoot. She says, "...I found myself truly inspired and in awe of the transformative process...it brought out a more confident and empowered ME. I just fell in love. And the images? They were THE peak moment of my wedding day, and a moment I will treasure forever between myself and my husband." Having had such a positive, perspective changing experience, Erika decided to use her photographic talents and offer an opportunity for other women to feel this amazing sense of empowerment.

Erika is a multi-talented artist, painter, singer, writer and photographer. She is a wife, mother, daughter and philosopher. Her ability to capture those subtle, yet special moments make her images truly unique. However, her most distinguishing characteristic is her genuine nature. She is unlike anyone else that we've ever met; she is such an incredible woman who makes her clients feel confident, sexy, safe and secure during their photo shoot. What people might not know about Erika is that she pursued a graduate degree in counseling and has also worked as a caregiver. She is a deeply compassionate person with an honest and pure soul. Her ability to fuse art and tender interaction with others makes her a natural for the intimate art of boudoir photography. Her kind and genuine nature allows clients to open up and trust beyond anything they've ever experienced, which allows for subjects to create something magical for themselves.

Erika continues to say, "It's no wonder that I have felt myself so drawn to this Boudoir world...it deeply impacted my life! Returning this gift to others and making use of my artistic talent through this profoundly invigorating medium, is just...a gift."

Her studio is located at a historically landmarked estate, Casa de los Pajaros, in Ojai, California. She and her family also live in the beautiful artist community of Ojai Valley, California.

For more information on Erika or to schedule a photo session:
Please contact her at: arivoxartist@gmail.com / 805.450.8928
Check out her work and website at: http://ivoryroseboudoir.com/


Now on to the testimonials...
Kim


As I mentioned in a previous post, this summer I really focused on myself, my health and my nutrition. I feel like I've always been fairly healthy and happy with myself, but deep down I always strived for more, something better for myself. Finally I realized enough was enough. I knew what I needed to do and I decided to suck it up and do it. It was time to actually put myself first! Over the last five months I've transformed my life and have never felt more amazing. I started seeing a nutritionist, and joined a cross fit gym. I stopped focusing on all the bullshit going on around me and only focused on the people and things that made me happy. Along this journey I came across a list of 2015 goals that I wrote down at the beginning of the year:

Workout more (check!)
Take business classes (check!)
Be mindful of my words a.k.a. don't be such a bitch (LOL... check!)
Forgive yourself (check!)
Appreciate people more (check!)
Try something new....

Try something new, huh? Ok, but what? Lori had recently mentioned to me that Jasmine did a boudoir shoot with this really amazing photographer, Erika, in Ojai. I've always wanted to do boudoir photography, but had lacked the self confidence to ever do it. I knew there was no better time to do it than now. So I did. And It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life! Erika was so friendly, encouraging, and kind. She made me feel so confident and comfortable baring not only my body, but my heart and soul to her lens. It was such a liberating feeling being able to express myself in this new, completely foreign to me, raw way. There wasn't much I could hide behind. No way to block my flaws and imperfections. I had to embrace them, accept them, and appreciate them. Going to the reveal and seeing all of the amazing shots that she took, I almost didn't believe that the person in the photos were me. It's hard for me to even find the words to describe what looking at these photos makes me feel, what this whole experience has done for me. The boudoir shoot was the final step that I needed to take in this journey of reinventing myself, and I will be eternally grateful for what Erika and her incredible gift has given to me. For now I have the most amazing, beautiful photos capturing a moment in my life that I have never been more proud of. These photos represent to me the person that I once was, the person that I am today, and the journey I had to take to get there. They will forever remind me that I can do what I put my mind to. That putting myself first was the most important thing I could have ever done.



Jasmine


 Every so often, this woman gig is hard. There are a hundred people/things that chip away at who we are. It’s almost impossible to stay strong in all things. Not every challenge builds a person up, some change a heart for a long time; makes the brave become scared, the joyful become sad, the faithful become untrusting. These sentiments may apply not just to the world, but sometimes to ourselves. And in these instances, one may look to heal by doing something, going somewhere, or changing something.

Everyone has a journey, and I cannot air my map in this story. I CAN say that what had once been confident, happy and secure, for a myriad of reasons, had become insecure and hurt. I internalize too much. I carry things that don’t even belong to me. And I accept responsibility for others’ poor choices. I know how to do this. What that means is that I end up investing more on those who are, frankly, undeserving, but I don’t realize it until it’s too late. For a number of years, I’ve seen myself in a poor light. I’ve secretly believed a shred of these THINGS that have been said, that I’m not enough…and it’s unhealthy. It’s not that everything in my life was broken; my children, my faith, all greatly nurturing aspects that help me get up when I feel like I’ve been knocked down.

One morning, I had this thought. I had once been a painter, been on stage, been a singer, had written music, had overcome my fear of heights, had done things for the sake of giving time to myself to remember who I was. It had been years since I had done any of that…and the result was like a withered flower. This is when providence stepped in.

Groupon is a gamble when you’re buying services. They could be amazing. They could be the reason why you are not stoked on buying ANYTHING on line. I was scrolling through some of the items that were local and discovered a boudoir session offered by a photographer in Ojai. Being a photographer myself, I’m not usually excited about putting myself in FRONT of the camera, but something whispered inside my head: try it. It might be just what I need to get a different image of myself. I bought the voucher. And waited 2 weeks to call the photographer. I was nervous. I was scared. I’m 40, I have the body of a woman who has given birth to 3 children, but not the bounced-back body. Still, I knew that if I did this, it would be a huge exercise in self-acceptance, and THAT was what I was looking for.

When I finally called Erika, and we booked a meeting appointment where she would show me the property and walk me through the process, she asked me why I was doing this. Was it for someone? A guy? Was it for something? Was it for myself? I told her that the doubts in my head needed to be silenced, that I didn’t want to be consumed any longer by insecurity and that this experience would give me a different perspective of myself, surprise me even…that while there are amazing things that I’ve done with this mind, these hands, this body, even, I forget altogether too easily. This would be my reminder. I told her about some of the specific things I was trying to overcome and she was completely compassionate. She understood and knew exactly what she would bring to make this happen.

I was nervous so I asked a friend to come along with me to the shoot. I walked into the room that had been prepared for me and thereafter, I was in Erika’s hands. I didn’t want to look in a mirror at all - not for make up, not for wardrobe. I didn’t want to make it about the facade, it was a testing ground for feeling secure in my own imperfect skin, no hiding, no masking. Between us, there was complete trust. She encouraged, went with my movements, followed the line, and worked with the shadows. After the hour was up, I realized how easy the whole process had been. I felt amazing, brave, and utterly comfortable despite this exposure. In any other scenario, I would have been overcome with anxiety, but she’s graceful and easy. I would not have been able to do it and I feel so lucky to have had our paths cross to do this work together.

When I went to do the shoot preview, I was almost shocked at what she had captured. It was remarkable that the person in the pictures was me. I had not ever seen myself the way she had. But I am so glad and grateful that I was able to see what she saw. She captured me as powerful, secure, independent and confident. This overall experience has been cathartic. I’m not saying that the only way a woman can feel this way is by going through an experience like this, nor am I saying I was a wreck until it happened. What I am saying is that in the many paths we take toward a positive sense of self, this was perfect for me in taking steps to accept everything I am, and in believing that I AM ENOUGH in all things. This added to the beautiful parts of my life, as a reminder that I am capable, I am strong, I can pick myself up, dust myself off and accomplish unbelievable things.

What I learned more about Erika is that she has this ability to bring out and capture beauty, tenderness, fierce uniqueness, fragility and mystery in the frames of a picture. She takes this talent and helps women who have been through horrible abuses to heal. She is a proponent of every body being stunning as they are in their various stages, that beautiful bodies aren’t just one type or one way. She is the catalyst toward sincere self-acceptance.

For too many of us, we don’t like what we see in pictures. They’re riddled with all of the things we don’t really want to see. Imperfections on our skin, tired eyes, fat here. We may use these to harness ourselves. When we see them we think, I can’t. When I saw these images for the first time…and even now when I look at them for myself, I remember being in that place and doing the unexpected…and I come to place where I think, Why not?

Sometimes we need a little magic. We need a moment of outrageous beauty to help shake off the doubts, to remember that those difficult things in our lives have changed us, but not always for the worst. We CAN become stronger from difficult things and decide to still be soft in our hearts because it’s what makes us good and different and special in the world. I was reminded that it doesn’t have to be me against her, it can be us and that’s it. I also learned that things mean a different thing on a different day. A difficult gig yesterday may be the best gig I’ve ever had today. That I can define myself however I want. That there’s more to a heart than the voices that doubt, and that taking the time to do things that are constructive (despite being uncomfortable initially) are the steps toward healing and being my best self.